Are we rushing through life too quickly, always eager to move on to the next thing? This question has been on the minds of many after a radio news segment years ago left a lasting impression on a friend and her companion.
The segment, which discussed delays on the Long Island Rail Road, ended with the line, “These commuters are ready for this day to be over, once and for all.” While the intention was simply to convey the commuters’ desire to get home and relax, the phrase sparked a deeper reflection on the constant rush to move on to the next moment.
The friend, inspired by the segment, wrote, “Certainly at one point the day will definitely be over once and for all for each of us. Is that what we’re rushing toward?” This sentiment highlights the absurdity of always looking ahead to the next thing, even when we are in the midst of enjoying a pleasant moment.
The poem “Hurry” by Marie Howe further explores this theme, questioning the urge to constantly rush through life. The poet wonders where this constant hurry will lead, whether it is to the grave or to a future where we stand grown and reflect on the moments we missed.
In a culture that values hustle and productivity, it can be challenging to slow down and appreciate the present moment. The pressure to always be moving forward, to always be striving for the next goal, can lead to a sense of perpetual dissatisfaction.
Since reflecting on the radio segment, the friend has made a conscious effort to notice when she is rushing, both physically and psychologically. By asking herself, “Where are you going? And why are you in such a hurry?” she has been able to create a pause that allows her to appreciate the present moment and avoid unnecessary stress.
This story serves as a reminder to all of us to slow down, to savor the moments we are in, and to resist the urge to always be looking ahead. Perhaps by taking a moment to pause and appreciate the present, we can find greater fulfillment and joy in our everyday lives.
