In a heartwarming and insightful “Modern Love” episode, writer Celeste Ng reads an essay titled “Bringing a Daughter Back From the Brink With Poems” by Betsy MacWhinney. The essay delves into the struggles of parenting a teenage daughter who is grappling with anger, rebellion, and self-harm. As a mother, Betsy tries to reach her daughter, Marissa, by leaving poems in her shoes as a form of quiet protest and hope.
Celeste Ng, known for her acclaimed literary fiction, relates to the themes of the essay as both a parent and a former teenager. She reflects on her own experiences with rebellion and depression, as well as the challenges of communicating with her parents who were scientists. Ng emphasizes the power of poetry to provide perspective and solace during difficult times.
Through the lens of Betsy’s story, Ng highlights the importance of acknowledging pain and finding small moments of hope and connection. She shares a poignant message she would pass on to her own son, encapsulated in a Mary Oliver poem about living a life full of curiosity and wonder.
As the episode concludes, Ng’s reflections on parenting, communication, and the impact of poetry offer a touching and insightful perspective on navigating the complexities of love and relationships.
